Wordless Wednesday

Took Connor to get his hair cut today he did ok. He is not a fan of gettin  his hair cut and telling him he has to wait is extra hard about we manages. His heart is not as short as I wanted but with him you really do not push your luck.

 We already have his Halloween costume for this year. Grandma made the cape and the rest of it has been bought we just need to buy a temporary tattoo of Harry Potter's lightning scar and will he ready to go. Planning on buying Aiden a owl costume so he can match Connor .

His chest

One of our kitties died on Thursday had a hard time explaining it to Connor. Took him a while to understand but late that night it did finally get through to him and he broke down . I held on to him until he finally fell asleep for the night. She was my husband's cat and had always been in Connor's life. She will be missed. Eventually we will be getting another cat but not for sometime.

I recently to a picture of A and it showed how his chest healed after his surgery.

Admitting it has bothered me and I do hope it heals better after his next surgery. No this does not cause him any pain an  he does not act like he even noticed it. So I  is more of a cosmetic issue but kids are cruel!  He doesn't need extra stuff to be made fun of. Mow his scar that is fine  I want him to be proud of that just like I said kids are mean.

RIP Princess

we have a walker

So A has been walking a little but with hesitation but as of Wednesday that stopped and he basically walked all say! Bumped his head twice because of said walking. I am hoping because he is filly walking now he will not regress with that due to his surgery.

Starting to figure out what needs to be done for said surgery. One thing us we can bring one of his toys or blankets but it needs to be labeled. Well can't handle being without his blanket. Since my mom has a embroidery machine. His name will be embroidered on one of his blankets. Hopefully that will sleep his blanket separate from the hospital ones.Really so not want it to be lost.

Really dreading the talk I will need to so with big brother won't be giving  him details yet. He deserves to have fun for his birthday before he learns the full details of what is going on. Genoa already acting stresses about stuff and  I know he is just feeding off all of us, he is a smart kkd he knows something is going on :(.

That's all for now for some reason I have been in the mood to post on here. Helps me cope.

Wordless Wednesday

Thank you.

I do not know how I would be handling all of what we have  been through and garbage are going to be going through next month without the help of others. My mom has been fondemental on all of this. Huns does not have a lot of vacation time because he ha  not been there long enough to have a larger amount of time of. So I have been doing all of the running with doctor appointments. The very important ones mom has been coming with me. These appointments can be very hard. I usually feel physically drained by the end if them . His last cardiology appointment was so hard! Without her I do not know how I would have done it. Because of this she is coming with me to his next appointment with his cardiologist on the 26. She also has no patience to wait at home for me to call.  Also she will be there for Aiden's preop the day before his surgery. Lastly big brother will be sleeping over with grandma and grandpa that night do we can do what we need that morning and head straight there. We will be giving him a bath that morning ans use antiseptic wipes to help combat infections.

I also want to say thank you to a few other my pediatrician who love my son and even for us a case of pediasure. Next the co-worker who also got us a car of pediasure and the anonymous friend who got us a third case. Thank you, thank you, thank you for caring about my son and helping him gain some weight before the operation. A my co-worker said it is a small thing that we can do to help in the stressful situations you guys are dealing with. It means a lot to us. I love my boys so much and seeing others care for them as well touches my heart.